All relationships need time to grow and become perfect. The things you talk about with your partner matter a lot in shaping your relationship and make things good between you. You need to know what to talk about and what not to. Given below is a list of a few things that you can talk about, which will be of interest to both you and your partner. However, all relationships are not equal and you need to know the interests and likings of your partner.
Conversations regarding various things come naturally in a relationship where two people are in love with each other. However, there are certain talks that you can initiate to make the relationship more intimate and special.
Things that you can talk about are…
Daily lives of each other: You can every day talk about the daily activities and events of each other. This will help you understand more about each other’s lives. Couples who do not talk about their daily lives tend to drift away gradually.
Movies and TV shows: Movies and television shows are perfect to talk about for every couple. If you love to watch same kind of films or TV shows, you can talk about that and discuss the films with each other. Discussing that can help to spend minutes and hours.
Crushes and likings: If you feel that someone in your office is attractive or someone trying to catch your attention, you can talk about that to your partner. Engage in a casual talk with him/her about it and you can both share a good laugh over the matter. If you haven’t done that till now, start. In the beginning it might feel a bit uncomfortable, but with time, it is going to feel right.
Hobbies and interests: If you are in a new relationship, you could be able to talk about the hobbies and interests to each other. You will be able to talk about your likings and interests. You can also encourage your partner to enjoy your hobbies. For example, if you enjoy gardening, you can also bring your partner to help you in watering the plants or to monitor the saplings. You too can help him/her in maintaining the aquarium. This will make life more interesting and exciting.
Silent conversation is a very good thing in any relationship. You should be able to sit next to each other and be silent and enjoy the moment. If you are in love, this should not feel awkward. You do not always have something to talk about every day. However, you should be able to judge whether this silence is comfortable or you guys are just ignoring each other.
Remember, new relationships are fun and exciting. If you are into a new relationship, it is touchy, feely, sexy, and interesting. However, as time passes by, things might not seem to be as colorful and interesting as you thought them to be. However, to be able to maintain a relationship in the same vein forever, you should be able to talk about different things in a lighter and better vein.