When someone is in love, they feel the passion burning from inside. The feeling is tender, loving, wild, overwhelming, and breathtaking at the same time. However, when it comes to love at first sight, there are a lot of controversies about it.
Some of the people give their arguments in favor of love at first sight and there are people who are against it. According to the people who do not believe in love at first sight, the person does not have enough knowledge about the other person and his/her characteristics. That is the reason love at first sight is a wishful thinking and is not the actual, lasting emotion. Then, there are certain activities that are typical of love. So, unless you practice those exercises, you cannot be in real love.
However, there are people who believe that readiness to various actions defines your emotions. There are instances where there is action readiness and yet, there is no actual physical behavior. A person lying on the bed can be in love too, without having any physical readiness.
There have been researches on the possibility of love at first sight and it has been found that real love is based on positive illusions and idealizations. This has also been found true for the kind of love that lasts for a long period of time. It has also been noted by the researchers that this form of love does not stay for a long period of time in most of the cases. Since this is the form of love that has the action readiness and the beliefs of romantic love and not any other forms, it is the best example of romantic love.
What happens when two people are in love at the first sight?
When eyes meet, it seems like an eternity, even though it is just for a few seconds or minutes. The feelings will be a blend of excitement, fear, and ecstasy. If you are in love, you’d know instantly.
If you feel that you are in love, you need to decide whether it is not lust, love, or just affection. Given below is a short discussion on the power of attraction and the effect it has on the ‘romantic’ partners.
Some of the scientists feel that it is the sense of smell, that help people fall in love at the first sight. Smell is the most primal element of illusion. The sense of smell is set off by the hormones named pheromones. These pheromones help us to get attracted to the people of other sex instantly. There are instances when people fall in love with such people who do not pass the socially accepted standards of beauty.
It is good to fall in love. But for you love at first sight may not click. If you haven’t found the love of your life, you should pursue the right temperament, experience, and environment to fall in. You will soon find the combination that you’d find different and attractive than the others. In case, when two persons meet if the feelings are mutual, love at first sight can be possible.