Are you taking the best steps in saving a relationship? All will depend on the severity of the problem and the efforts that both of you are willing to take in making things better. There are no shortcuts and easy answers when you want to save a relationship.
First of all, you will need to ask yourself if your partner wants to be in the relationship or not and if he’s willing to take the effort in making some changes.
So many relationship problems usually originate from unrealistic expectations which are unusual to some. There are days that both partners won’t get along. The other person will usually care more than the other to keep things better.
Things may run smoothly if the person who cares more will just neglect the things and will sacrifice more than the other in maintaining the relationship on a balance. However, at some point, demands will be there and resentment will be present due to the lack of help coming from the other person. In most cases, this will be the turning point because the relationship will start to suffer.
It is a must to reassess the situation and the status of the relationship whether it is suffering or not from relationship problems. If the answer is yes, then it is much better to just leave and walk away rather than doing all the sacrifices you have been making and this will be carried until you get old.
If of you are grownups already, can communicate to one another, and willing to take the fair share on the sacrifices of the relationship, then I guess you may have the chance in working things out. This will be the needed things to make the relationship work out.
One person can’t do all the things alone, both of you are. If you’re having difficulties, you may try asking for help on how both of you can establish a much better relationship.
You may want to try and seek help from an expert, find helpful relationship guides online or in some books, or you can sort the things out all by yourselves. The decision will depend on you however if both of you are willing to take the sacrifice and work things out, you can make the relationship much better the way you want it to be.
As long as the two of you willing to go for it and make the necessary change within the relationship, you’ll find that saving a relationship can really be achieved.