If you’re serious in learning on what to do to get your ex girlfriend back, well, I have something to say. The very first thing that you must know is the fact that she no longer has trust in whatever you say or do. There’s a possibility that she is still in love with you, but since she’s the one who broke up with you, she’s been trying very hard not to.
Finding out the reason or reasons is the first thing you must do and the first on the list is why you treated her so badly. Everything happens for a reason and everything has its own specific consequences, may it be good or bad. If you are serious and want to have a second chance with your ex-girlfriend, you must understand why you acted that way and said all the bad things to her. Then, when you figure it out, you must look for ways on how you can change your own behavior and this may probably need a longer time.
When a person doesn’t know how to handle certain situations properly, they behave poorly and their insecurities are present. No one really wants to say or admit when they are insecure to something or someone, not even to themselves, however, most of the time this is the reason. Keep in mind that money is not the root of all evil, insecurity is.
If you have this kind of behavior wherein you overcompensate because you feel inferior and with this, you act and think like a big man and letting her know ‘who’s the boss’: you better think again. It seems like you’re not really acting like a big man, you look like a scared little boy who begs the love of your girlfriend and very much afraid to let her know your real feelings.
Maybe for some reason, she already knows that. Anyone can see when a person is trying to compensate too much. You see this all the time like a guy with a very loud motorcycle, when a man is trying to sleep with every woman out there to prove that he is a man or a guy that treats his girlfriend like garbage. However, none of this will really help in getting your ex girlfriend back.
If you are a confident man, you won’t really need to work very hard to try and prove it. If you just stick all of your efforts on being a caring and honest person, those people that surround you will respect and trust you more. And if in case you really want to be the big man, then this is a much better way compared to the other entire BS.
Even after you have figured it all out and changed your behavior, never expect that your ex girlfriend will trust you straight away. Regardless of how hard you may try to talk and convince her that you have changed, actions always speak louder than words and if you are very serious in getting her back into your life, you will need to show her that behaviour. This will surely take some time and if you’re not willing to devote the time, it’s best that you simply let her go, and forget everything in trying to get your ex-girlfriend back.